When you, your child, or your teen hear news about an outbreak of an infectious disease like the coronavirus (COVID-19), it is normal to feel stressed and anxious. During an epidemic like the one we are currently experiencing, it is important to understand, monitor, and relieve stress in yourself and those you love. Here’s how to cope with stress.
The best way to cope with stress is to focus on the things you and your loved ones can control in your lives – taking care of yourself, relaxation strategies, taking action to tolerate stress, thinking realistically, and staying connected to others.
Take Care of Yourself and Your Loved Ones
You and your loved ones are encouraged to take these steps to take care of yourselves.
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Limit the amount of time you and those you love spend reading or watching the news about the coronavirus.
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Limit reading information about the disease on social media.
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Get accurate information from reliable sources like the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention.
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Eat healthy foods and drink plenty of water.
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Get enough exercise, sleep, and rest.
Take Time to Relax and Take Actions to Tolerate Stress
When you are feeling overly overwhelmed, take time to breathe, relax, and practice distress tolerance strategies that work for you.
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Do something! Go for a walk, run, dance, play a game, read, or engage in some other activity you enjoy.
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Keep track of what’s going well and why. Regularly compare successes to struggles.
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Create the opposite emotion by listening to relaxing music, watching funny videos, or doing whatever makes you feel less stressed.
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Temporarily push stress or worry out of your mind. Write down a few things you can do to address your stress or worry. You might include, “Get accurate information, take actions recommended to prevent getting the disease, and talk to a trusted friend, loved one, or counselor.” When you start worrying again, remind yourself that you have a plan.
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Replace your worried thoughts by doing thinking tasks like number/word puzzles. In a pinch, even counting books in a bookcase can be a way to distract yourself from stressful thoughts.
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Pay attention to your senses. Pet your dog, squeeze a stress ball, look at art, listen to sounds in nature, or eat your food slowly and pay attention to how it tastes.
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Do something for someone else. Help someone you care about with a task you can do well or make or do something nice for your loved ones. Clean up your room and donate things you don’t need. Surprise someone with a hug, a nice note, or a favor.
Change Negative Unrealistic Thoughts
First, try to identify your (or your child’s) automatic, negative, and unrealistic thoughts about this problem or your ability to handle this problem. These thoughts typically include the words I, me, or my, such as “I’m bound to get the coronavirus” or “I can’t prevent my family from getting this disease.”
Next, ask questions to look for evidence and alternatives to unrealistic thoughts including, “Is this thought true?” “What’s happened when I’ve worried about this type of problem before?”, “What happens to other people?”, “What is likely to happen?”, and “What’s my best realistic thought?”
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If you tend to experience all or nothing thoughts like, “I always get these types of diseases” or “I’ll never be able to prevent getting this disease,” try asking yourself some specific questions like, “How likely is it that this will happen?” or “What can I do to prevent getting this disease?”
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If you have overgeneralizing thoughts such as, “Because my uncle who lives in Washington has the coronavirus, I’m bound to get it here in Texas,” try asking yourself, “Am I jumping to conclusions about what will happen to me?” or “How is my situation different than my uncles?”
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If you have exaggerating thoughts where you expect the worst possible thing to happen or you exaggerate the risks involved, ask yourself, “Is the problem as bad as I am making out?” or “How bad could it be?” or “What can I do to reduce the risks?”